{"id":14784,"date":"2026-08-18T20:22:05","date_gmt":"2026-08-18T20:22:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/childhood-shared-without-consent-one-in-three-romanian-children-has-asked-their-parents-to-delete-posts\/"},"modified":"2026-08-18T20:27:07","modified_gmt":"2026-08-18T20:27:07","slug":"childhood-shared-without-consent-one-in-three-romanian-children-has-asked-their-parents-to-delete-posts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/childhood-shared-without-consent-one-in-three-romanian-children-has-asked-their-parents-to-delete-posts\/","title":{"rendered":"Copil\u0103ria publicat\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 acord: unul din trei copii rom\u00e2ni le-a cerut p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103 \u0219tearg\u0103 post\u0103rile"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4><strong>Peste o treime dintre post\u0103rile p\u0103rin\u021bilor includ copiii<\/strong><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>29% dintre copiii rom\u00e2ni le-au cerut p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103 elimine fotografii, videoclipuri sau alte materiale publicate despre ei, cel mai ridicat procent din compara\u021bia european\u0103 prezentat\u0103 de Comisia European\u0103.\n<p><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Un studiu publicat \u00een martie 2026 arat\u0103 c\u0103 peste \u0219apte din ultimele 20 de post\u0103ri ale p\u0103rin\u021bilor includ cel pu\u021bin unul dintre copii.\n<p><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>Publicarea copiilor pe re\u021belele sociale a fost asociat\u0103 cu intensificarea conflictelor \u00een familie, \u00een special \u00een cazul con\u021binutului distribuit pe TikTok \u0219i YouTube.<\/strong><strong style=\"font-size: 1rem;\">\u00a0<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Bucure\u0219ti, 18 August 2026 &#8211; <strong>Aproape unul din trei copii rom\u00e2ni cu v\u00e2rste \u00eentre 9 \u0219i 16 ani le-a cerut p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103 elimine con\u021binutul publicat despre el pe internet, potrivit datelor EU Kids Online, readuse \u00een aten\u021bie \u00een 2026 de Horizon Magazine, platforma de cercetare \u0219i inovare a Comisiei Europene<a href=\"#_edn1\" name=\"_ednref1\">[i]<\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Procentul de 29% \u00eenregistrat \u00een Rom\u00e2nia este cel mai ridicat din compara\u021bia prezentat\u0103, la polul opus afl\u00e2ndu-se Lituania, unde numai 3% dintre copii au declarat c\u0103 le-au cerut p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103 \u0219tearg\u0103 astfel de materiale. \u00cen majoritatea \u021b\u0103rilor analizate, p\u00e2n\u0103 la o treime dintre copii au spus c\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii au publicat ceva despre ei f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le cear\u0103 mai \u00eent\u00e2i acordul.<\/p>\n<p>Datele schimb\u0103 perspectiva asupra siguran\u021bei digitale. Discu\u021bia se concentreaz\u0103, de regul\u0103, asupra timpului petrecut de copii pe internet, asupra con\u021binutului nepotrivit sau a persoanelor necunoscute cu care ace\u0219tia pot intra \u00een contact. Cercet\u0103rile arat\u0103 \u00eens\u0103 c\u0103 <strong>prima \u00eenc\u0103lcare a intimit\u0103\u021bii digitale poate ap\u0103rea chiar \u00een familie<\/strong>, atunci c\u00e2nd p\u0103rin\u021bii construiesc identitatea online a copilului \u00eenainte ca acesta s\u0103 poat\u0103 decide ce dore\u0219te s\u0103 fac\u0103 public.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>\u0218apte din 20 de post\u0103ri includ copilul<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Amploarea fenomenului este eviden\u021biat\u0103 \u0219i de o cercetare publicat\u0103 \u00een 2026<a href=\"#_edn2\" name=\"_ednref2\">[ii]<\/a>, realizat\u0103 pe 470 de p\u0103rin\u021bi care distribuie online con\u021binut despre copiii lor. \u00cen medie<strong>, peste \u0219apte dintre ultimele 20 de post\u0103ri ale acestora includeau cel pu\u021bin unul dintre copii<\/strong>, iar p\u0103rin\u021bii au distribuit con\u021binut despre ace\u0219tia <strong>aproximativ de dou\u0103 ori pe s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru adul\u021bi, fotografiile \u0219i videoclipurile pot reprezenta o modalitate de a p\u0103stra amintiri, de a \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i momente importante sau de a se conecta cu familia \u0219i prietenii. Pentru copil, \u00eens\u0103, aceea\u0219i postare poate \u00eensemna <strong>pierderea controlului asupra propriei imagini, expunerea unui moment intim sau apari\u021bia unei identit\u0103\u021bi digitale pe care nu \u0219i-a ales-o<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Studiul identific\u0103 o rela\u021bie complex\u0103 \u00eentre sharenting \u0219i dinamica familiei. Publicarea copiilor a fost asociat\u0103 at\u00e2t cu o apropiere mai mare perceput\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bi, c\u00e2t \u0219i cu intensificarea conflictelor dintre p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i copii, \u00een special atunci c\u00e2nd ace\u0219tia ap\u0103reau \u00een <strong>con\u021binut publicat pe TikTok sau YouTube<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Dreptul copilului de a spune \u201enu\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Perspectiva lui <strong>Isabelle Filliozat, una dintre cele mai importante autorit\u0103\u021bi europene \u00een parenting pozitiv, dezvoltare emo\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i abordarea informat\u0103 de traum\u0103<\/strong>, aduce \u00een centrul acestei discu\u021bii respectul acordat copilului, ascultarea nevoilor sale \u0219i recunoa\u0219terea limitelor pe care acesta le exprim\u0103.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>\u201eCopiii vor s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceea ce este bine. Vor s\u0103 se comporte bine. Cu condi\u021bia s\u0103 fie respecta\u021bi, vor respecta la r\u00e2ndul lor<\/strong>\u201d, afirm\u0103 Isabelle Filliozat<a href=\"#_edn3\" name=\"_ednref3\">[iii]<\/a>.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Aplicat spa\u021biului digital, acest principiu \u00eenseamn\u0103 ca p\u0103rintele s\u0103 nu trateze imaginea copilului ca pe un con\u021binut asupra c\u0103ruia decide singur. A-i cere acordul \u00eenainte de publicare, a-i explica unde va ap\u0103rea fotografia, a-i respecta refuzul \u0219i a elimina materialul atunci c\u00e2nd copilul nu se mai simte confortabil sunt gesturi prin care adultul \u00eei transmite c\u0103 vocea \u0219i limitele sale conteaz\u0103. \u00cen acest context, consim\u021b\u0103m\u00e2ntul digital devine o form\u0103 concret\u0103 de respect \u00een rela\u021bia p\u0103rinte-copil, dar \u0219i una dintre primele lec\u021bii prin care copilul \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 c\u0103 are dreptul s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i protejeze imaginea \u0219i via\u021ba privat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Isabelle Filliozat va urca pentru prima dat\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia pe scena <a href=\"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/\"><strong>ParentED Fest<\/strong><\/a>, \u00een perioada 17-18 octombrie 2026, la Aula Magna a Universit\u0103\u021bii Politehnica din Bucure\u0219ti, unde va vorbi despre rela\u021bia p\u0103rinte-copil, dezvoltarea emo\u021bional\u0103 \u0219i provoc\u0103rile cu care se confrunt\u0103 familiile \u00eentr-o lume tot mai digitalizat\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Edi\u021bia din acest an a festivalului de parenting reune\u0219te 7 exper\u021bi interna\u021bionali<\/strong> de referin\u021b\u0103 \u00een psihologia copilului \u0219i educa\u021biei: <strong>Alfie Kohn<\/strong>, <strong>Erica Komisar<\/strong> \u2013 \u00een premier\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, <strong>Isabelle Filliozat<\/strong> &#8211; \u00een premier\u0103 \u00een Rom\u00e2nia, <strong>Dr. Tina Payne Bryson<\/strong>, <strong>Dr. Dan Siegel<\/strong> \u2013 revine la cererea publicului, <strong>Caroline Welch<\/strong> \u0219i <strong>Jessica Joelle Alexander <\/strong>\u2013 revine pentru a doua oar\u0103 la ParentED Fest.<\/p>\n<p>Eveniment sustinut de: Strategic Partner: Lidl Romania \/ Lupilu, Healthcare Partner: Sanador, Empowerment Partner: Fundatia Kids Hero, Growth Partner: Raiffeisen Bank. Sustinut de: ThedaMar, Catena, Aqua Carpatica, Fundatia Bog\u2019Art, Autoklass Audi Ploiesti, Activ Group Management, Covalact. Partener educational: English Kids Academy, APRICAS. Parteneri media: Mind Architect, Itsy Bitsy FM, Magic FM, Mommy Hai, Pagina de Psihologie, Parinti si Pitici, Psychologies, e-femeia, Sfatul Parintilor, SpotMedia. Partener cultural: Carturesti, Audiotribe. Parteneri editoriali: ZYX Books, Editura For You. Play Partners: Destiny Park, Kiddo Play Academy.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ednref1\" name=\"_edn1\">[i]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/projects.research-and-innovation.ec.europa.eu\/en\/horizon-magazine\/are-parents-sharing-too-much-online-hidden-risks-children\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Horizon Magazine \u2013 Are parents sharing too much online? The hidden risks for children<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ednref2\" name=\"_edn2\">[ii]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/jsomer.org\/index.php\/pub\/article\/view\/76\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Posting Parenthood: Patterns of sharenting and their impact on parent-child relationships<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ednref3\" name=\"_edn3\">[iii]<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.lesadultesdedemain.com\/interviews\/education-positive-isabelle-filliozat?utm_source=chatgpt.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Interviu cu Isabelle Filliozat \u2013 Les Adultes de Demain<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aproape unul din trei copii rom\u00e2ni cu v\u00e2rste \u00eentre 9 \u0219i 16 ani le-a cerut p\u0103rin\u021bilor s\u0103 elimine con\u021binutul publicat despre el pe internet<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":14785,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14784","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized-ro"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14784","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14784"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14784\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14788,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14784\/revisions\/14788"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/14785"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14784"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14784"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/parentedfest.ro\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14784"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}